| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 27 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 18/04/1981 |
| Date of Death | 30/05/2008 |
| Visitors | 29,447 since 04/06/2008 |
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Ben's friend Alison lovingly created this site and very kindly handed the reins over to me. Bless
you Ali xxxx
To our good friend Ben Oxley, you were taken from your loved ones way too soon at only 27. Everybody
who knew you loved you and everybody who met you liked you! You will never be forgotten. There just
arent enough words to describe you and there will never be enough words to describe losing you. We
hope you are in a nicer place now watching over your family and Katrina. You will be missed every
second of every day. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being you. Love always Alison. xx
Ben leaves behind a devastated family, his fiancee Katrina, his parents Tim and Jill, younger
brother and sister, Sam and Katie. We will love and miss Ben every day until we are reunited again.
xxx
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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us wonderful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.
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Well Ben I am going to keep this short and sweet because I could write about you forever. Ben was
the biggest character in our family. He lived his life to the full and lived each day has his last
with no regrets. He didnt take life seriously and had an easy care free outlook on life which has
parents was frustrating at times!! Ben had a wicked sense of humour and saw the funny side of things
even when not appropiate!! Ben was a joiner and took great pride in his work and was always only too
willing to do jobs for his family and friends. Wherever we go we see his handiwork and feel so
proud. If you wanted a good night out then Ben was the one to be with, though he did like to bring
golf flags home with him! Ben was a caring lad and always there for his family and friends who were
so important to him. Ben didnt fulfil his dream of marrying Kat next year or of the longing to have
his own family. I hope Ben is with his angel that he and Kat lost last year. Ben has left us some
amazing memories and life is quite boring without him now. You weren't an angel Ben but you are one
now. We love and miss you more than we can describe and everyone who was lucky enough to have met
you will never forget you. Wherever you are son be happy enjoy your time before we all come to join
you! Sleep peacefully Ben you are away from this cruel world. You are in our hearts and thoughts
until the day we die. Love you now and forever Mum & Dad
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In memory of Ben's wonderful Grandma, Jean Crook, who died 6th April 1995 aged 66. We love and miss
you very much and needed you so much when our Ben joined you. We know you will have been here with
all of us and will be looking after Ben until we are reunited. God Bless you Mum xxx
I would like to thank everyone who lights a candle for Ben or leaves a tribute. It is very
comforting to know that people care and take the time to do so. Love and best wishes to you all
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for Ben and Jill, with love xxx
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"Say not in grief he is no more, but live in thankfulness that he was".
with love Jane xxx
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♥ `*•.¸ 15th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.¸
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Here is a glowing candle..
That's lit with lots of love..
Just to say Night night..
To you Angel up above
I will also leave a tribute..
On your memorial with love
And I have wrote this little poem..
Just for you...
Special Angel up above
God Bless you special Angel..
Now I shall say night night
Watch over your family with love
And whisper to them...
GOODNIGHT
copyright� Jackie Thomas 02/09/09
I opened up a box one day
What treasures did I find!
Letters and some photographs
Of days we left behind
I drifted back to yesterday
The thought was oh, so clear
For just a moment, anyway
It felt like you were here
I smile when I think of you
Sometimes I cry so much
I'm all alone without you now
I long to feel your touch
But God had other plans for you
An Angel he did find
So now my box of memories
Is all that's left behind.
Love Always Julie XXX
The Precious Child I Knew
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A child is such a wonderous gift
And I thank the Lord for you
For knowing such a special child
For the love and joy we knew
Although your'e no longer with me
Precious memories live on in my heart
And in my mind it is clear
That one day we won't be apart
I know we'll be together again
When my time on earth is through
Until then I'll hold a memory close
Of the precious child I knew
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 15/11/09
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♥ 15TH NOVEMBER 2009 ♥
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It's Sunday again and the days pass so fast,
But my love for you will always last.
The days go by in such a blur,
Oh I wish that you were here.
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Days turn into months..
Months turn into years..
I still love you with all my heart..
And only wish we never had to part.
︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽
It's Sunday again and there is not a sound,
Theres not even many people walking around.
For Sunday you see is a day of rest..
You should know my angel..
Because you are the best.
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So my darling angel I just want to say...
Have a peaceful Sunday in heaven today.
And remember it's not just on a Sunday I love and miss you..
I love and miss you every day of the week too.
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SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, MAY YOU HAVE A
PEACEFUL DAY, LOVE JUDE. X X
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copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 14/06/09.
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God chose you for an angel
He must have needed you
Now every day till we meet again
We'll go on missing you
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Now all we have left are memories
Of the time when you were here
And every day till we meet again
We'll hold those memories dear
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God chose you for an angel
To watch over us below
So remember my sweet angel
How much we love you so
copyright© Ingrid Aspey 15/11/09
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BENXXXX
hi mate aw u then r u ok plz keep an eye on our jodie ,lol coz wen u 2 get 2gether yr as bad as each outher,but u know thats good coz i know at least ull look out 4 each outher well finish yr wkend off as u mean 2 do n tell our jodie 2 behave,i know it will b hard,shes her own person ,the 2 best angels up there who know jst how 2 do things so go n do it luv as always thinking of u xxx
On Angel Wings
On angel wings you do fly
On angel wings into the sky
On angel wings i do cry
Because those angel wings took you away
On angel wings the heralds sing
Is there no such lovely thing?
On angel wings you fly away.
I will see these angel wings again someday
When i am old and my time has come
On angel wings I will fly
Until I'm holding you once again
Smiling on angel wings.
Troy Nichols
14TH NOVEMBER 2009
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╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART. ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬
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♥ `*•.¸ 14th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.¸
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Always remember how much we love you..
Always remember how much we care
Always shine bright in heaven..
'Cos you are a special Angel there
God needed a special Angel..
In God's kingdom up above
So Goodnight my special Angel..
And I send you all my love
copyright� Jackie Thomas 14/11/09.
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