| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 27 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 18/04/1981 |
| Date of Death | 30/05/2008 |
| Visitors | 29,447 since 04/06/2008 |
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Ben's friend Alison lovingly created this site and very kindly handed the reins over to me. Bless
you Ali xxxx
To our good friend Ben Oxley, you were taken from your loved ones way too soon at only 27. Everybody
who knew you loved you and everybody who met you liked you! You will never be forgotten. There just
arent enough words to describe you and there will never be enough words to describe losing you. We
hope you are in a nicer place now watching over your family and Katrina. You will be missed every
second of every day. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being you. Love always Alison. xx
Ben leaves behind a devastated family, his fiancee Katrina, his parents Tim and Jill, younger
brother and sister, Sam and Katie. We will love and miss Ben every day until we are reunited again.
xxx
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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us wonderful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.
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Well Ben I am going to keep this short and sweet because I could write about you forever. Ben was
the biggest character in our family. He lived his life to the full and lived each day has his last
with no regrets. He didnt take life seriously and had an easy care free outlook on life which has
parents was frustrating at times!! Ben had a wicked sense of humour and saw the funny side of things
even when not appropiate!! Ben was a joiner and took great pride in his work and was always only too
willing to do jobs for his family and friends. Wherever we go we see his handiwork and feel so
proud. If you wanted a good night out then Ben was the one to be with, though he did like to bring
golf flags home with him! Ben was a caring lad and always there for his family and friends who were
so important to him. Ben didnt fulfil his dream of marrying Kat next year or of the longing to have
his own family. I hope Ben is with his angel that he and Kat lost last year. Ben has left us some
amazing memories and life is quite boring without him now. You weren't an angel Ben but you are one
now. We love and miss you more than we can describe and everyone who was lucky enough to have met
you will never forget you. Wherever you are son be happy enjoy your time before we all come to join
you! Sleep peacefully Ben you are away from this cruel world. You are in our hearts and thoughts
until the day we die. Love you now and forever Mum & Dad
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In memory of Ben's wonderful Grandma, Jean Crook, who died 6th April 1995 aged 66. We love and miss
you very much and needed you so much when our Ben joined you. We know you will have been here with
all of us and will be looking after Ben until we are reunited. God Bless you Mum xxx
I would like to thank everyone who lights a candle for Ben or leaves a tribute. It is very
comforting to know that people care and take the time to do so. Love and best wishes to you all
xxxx
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17TH NOVEMBER 2009
(✣) My Angel (✣)
(✣)My Angels halo shines with love
My Angel is in Gods arms above
My Angel is so beautiful you see..
My Angel watches down on me (✣)
(✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣) (✣)
(✣)Sweet dreams precious Angel
Just you snuggle up tight
And rest your wings 'til morning light
Watch over all your family with love..
Beautiful Angel....
In Gods kingdom above (✣)
Love Jude. x x
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copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 10/11/09
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WITH LOVE.xXx
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GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART
A bright star for God's collection
A lovely Angel of pure perfection
A life on earth not meant to be
No tears or smiles for all to see
Hearts are broken, split in two
But Angel we will always Love you~
Now the day has ended Angel
And I have to say 'Goodnight,
it's time for you to rest your Wings'.
Sweet Dreams.
God Bless.
Sleep Tight.
17TH NOVEMBER 2009
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♥:: LOVE ALWAYS JACKIE X X X ::♥
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words of Charles Dickens (1812-1870)
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"And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one person makes a void so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of Eternity can fill it up."
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love Jane ~xxx~
FROM YOUR ANGEL IN HEAVEN
I see tears fall down your face
When your thoughts have turned to me.
Just know that I’m in heaven,
With my Lord, who’s set me free.
No pain or sadness do I feel,
For God is by my side.
The beauty here in Heaven
Is now where I reside.
I know it’s hard for you to cope
For you can’t feel my touch.
But every moment, I can see
And love you very much.
When you are at your lowest
And feel you can’t go on,
Look towards the heavens
The light will be turned on.
Talk to me, just like you did
On earth when I was there.
You see, I’m not so far away …
Only as far as a prayer.
And when it’s time for you to join
Me up in Heaven above.
It’s then that you will realize,
The Golden Place of love.
For here there is no sadness,
Just everlasting light.
Someday we will be joined again,
When it’s time to take your flight.
~Author~
Ruth Ann Mahaffey
�copyright Jan. 2005
DONT CRY FOR ME
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Dont cry for me
i am always here,
I'm right beside you
i am very near.
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Dont cry for me
for i am happy here,
There is no hate
no hurt and no fear.
~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~
Dont cry for me
for i would never leave,
Just think of me
and just believe.
~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~
Dont cry for me
just live your life,
I'll help you always
through troubles and strife.
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Dont cry for me
just look back and say,
We loved and laughed
and then i went on my way
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Dont cry for me
for i have'nt gone,
I'm right in your heart
and life will go on.
~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~ ~♥x♥~
Written by Margaret Pilkington
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Some day there will be no tears,
For they will be wiped away.
I will hold on to that promise.
As I live each and everyday.
Someday we will meet again,
Though heaven keeps us apart.
For you will always be with me,
I shall carry you in my heart!
Someday we will share joy again,
When I join you in eternity.
But for now you will always be to me,
A precious memory.
Deborah J. Birdoes
I NEVER SAW YOUR WINGS
How is it that I never saw your wings
when you were here with me?
When you closed your eyes and soared
to the Heavens I could hear the
faint flutter of you wings as you left.
Your body no longer on this side
your spirit here eternally I see your halo shine.
I close my eyes and see the multicolored wings
surround me in my saddest moments and my happiest times.
Son my angel God has given you your assignment
always my Son forever my angel.
You fly into my dreams and when I am asleep
I feel your wings brush against my face wiping away
the tears I shed since I can no longer hold
you in my arms but in my heart.
You earned those wings dear Son
and you will always be me angel eternal.
by Michele
SORRY FOR THE LACK OF CANDLES LAST FEW DAYS. LOTS HAVE HAPPEN, MY SON CHRISTOPHER 16 WAS IN A CAR ACCIDENT. THANK GOD THAT HE'S OK. HE WAS ON HIS WAYTO FOOTBALL PRACTICE AND FELL ASLEEP DRIVING. I KNOW ANTHONY AND HIS GRANDFATHER MUST OF BEEN WATCHING OVER HIM. THANK GOD HE'S OK. ALSO BEEN WORKING ON MY HOUSE. IT MY HUSBANDS GLEN'S BIRTHDAY ON THE 26TH, JUST IS ALSO THANKSGIVING HERE AND TRYING TO MAKE IT SPECIAL FOR HIM AND MY FAMILY. SO SENDING YOU EXTRA LOVE AND (((HUGS))). ALL MY LOVE GLORIA ANTHONY'S MOM XOXO
GOODNIGHT ANGEL SLEEP TIGHT.
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Love,
Phyllis and Lil Benjamin
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