| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 27 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 18/04/1981 |
| Date of Death | 30/05/2008 |
| Visitors | 29,447 since 04/06/2008 |
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Ben's friend Alison lovingly created this site and very kindly handed the reins over to me. Bless
you Ali xxxx
To our good friend Ben Oxley, you were taken from your loved ones way too soon at only 27. Everybody
who knew you loved you and everybody who met you liked you! You will never be forgotten. There just
arent enough words to describe you and there will never be enough words to describe losing you. We
hope you are in a nicer place now watching over your family and Katrina. You will be missed every
second of every day. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being you. Love always Alison. xx
Ben leaves behind a devastated family, his fiancee Katrina, his parents Tim and Jill, younger
brother and sister, Sam and Katie. We will love and miss Ben every day until we are reunited again.
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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us wonderful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.
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Well Ben I am going to keep this short and sweet because I could write about you forever. Ben was
the biggest character in our family. He lived his life to the full and lived each day has his last
with no regrets. He didnt take life seriously and had an easy care free outlook on life which has
parents was frustrating at times!! Ben had a wicked sense of humour and saw the funny side of things
even when not appropiate!! Ben was a joiner and took great pride in his work and was always only too
willing to do jobs for his family and friends. Wherever we go we see his handiwork and feel so
proud. If you wanted a good night out then Ben was the one to be with, though he did like to bring
golf flags home with him! Ben was a caring lad and always there for his family and friends who were
so important to him. Ben didnt fulfil his dream of marrying Kat next year or of the longing to have
his own family. I hope Ben is with his angel that he and Kat lost last year. Ben has left us some
amazing memories and life is quite boring without him now. You weren't an angel Ben but you are one
now. We love and miss you more than we can describe and everyone who was lucky enough to have met
you will never forget you. Wherever you are son be happy enjoy your time before we all come to join
you! Sleep peacefully Ben you are away from this cruel world. You are in our hearts and thoughts
until the day we die. Love you now and forever Mum & Dad
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In memory of Ben's wonderful Grandma, Jean Crook, who died 6th April 1995 aged 66. We love and miss
you very much and needed you so much when our Ben joined you. We know you will have been here with
all of us and will be looking after Ben until we are reunited. God Bless you Mum xxx
I would like to thank everyone who lights a candle for Ben or leaves a tribute. It is very
comforting to know that people care and take the time to do so. Love and best wishes to you all
xxxx
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✿ 19TH NOVEMBER 2009 ✿
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✿ SENT WITH LOVE FROM JUDE.X X ✿
♥ `*•.¸ 19th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.¸
ANGEL~BEN
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Dear God
This letter is addressed to you.
Just to thank you for all that you do.
For you are so kind and show lots of love.
To all our angels in heaven above.
You keep our angels safe and look after them with love.
Oh I wish I could see my angel..
In heaven up above.
Dear God I miss my angel so much you see.
for we had a special bond, my angel and me.
I love my angel with all my heart.
But I've been so sad since we had to part.
Dear God I know that you have made my angel better.
So please Dear God read my angel this letter.
copyright? Jackie Thomas 30/05/09
Hi Ben Just checked my e-mails and a message from Alison for you ~ Behave and thinking of you always ~ bless her you two would be having a right verbal war now and both loving every minute of it. You met some wonderful people in your short life Ben some people dont do that in a life time. Well my love have a good night wish you was here ~ Mum xxx
Night night Handsome
GOODNIGHT,GOD BLESS SPECIAL ANGEL.XXX
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┊　 ♥ Unseen,unheard, but always near,
♥ Still Loved,still missed and very dear.
Always in my heart and thoughts
With love Always
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GOODNIGHT GODBLESS BEN
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Here is a glowing candle..
That's lit with lots of love..
Just to say Night night..
To you Angel up above
I will also leave a tribute..
On your memorial with love
And I have wrote this little poem..
Just for you...
Special Angel up above
God Bless you special Angel..
Now I shall say night night
Watch over your family with love
And whisper to them...
GOODNIGHT
copyright� Jackie Thomas 02/09/09.
with love alway's ben
auntie june uncle malc xxxx
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✿ 19TH NOVEMBER 2009 ✿
GOOD EVENING SWEET ANGEL.........
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✿ SENT WITH LOVE FROM JUDE.X X ✿
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Im holding on to memories
For times just slipping by
Every night i watch you
Our Angels lighting up the sky
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As i sit and watch you
You are so high above
My arms outstretch to Heaven
Just need to feel your love
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If i could only see you
Touch your hand Or kiss your face
My eyes will stop crying
And put a smile back on my face
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Each day its getting harder
Time is moving on
Memories so precious
In my heart you will live on
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Each memory i have of you
Brings a smile a silent tear
With every beat of my heart
A constant wish that you were here
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copyright© Vicky Deaville
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XXXBENXXX
hi mate soooooo missing u wish u were here with us n our jodie plz look over all u luv mate im asking this big time luv u as always mate spk soon xxx
TRIBUTE FOR 19-11-09
♥*•♥ One Gift♥*•♥
One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
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The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
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It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!
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TRIBUTE FOR 20-11-09
The pain we feel inside today
Is the pain we try to hide,
For no one will ever know
The tears i cry inside.
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It seems like only yesterday
The wound is still so sore.
For every hour of every day
We miss you more and more
For you are someone special
And think the world of you.
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TRIBUTE FOR 21-11-09
Missing You
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I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises.
The moon and stars still shine.
The flowers still bloom,
The birds still sing.
I expected a change in everything...
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I just can't believe it.
It still gets dark and light.
The ocean still has waves,
The rain still rains,
The wind still blows.
Is it because they do not know?
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I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop,
When in the house I found
An empty chair,
A missing smile.
I thought it would stop
For just a while.
I just can't believe it....
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TRIBUTE FOR 22-11-09
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You gave us love
And lots more,
We have so much
To thank you for,
Silent thoughts,
Memories deep,
Locked in our hearts
For ever to keep.
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I wish you all a very peaceful weekend my friend
With love as always Linda.xxx
Ask My Mum How She Is...
My Mum, she tells a lot of lies,
She never did before.
But from now until she dies,
She'll tell a whole lot more.
Ask my Mum how she is
And because she can't explain,
She will tell a little lie
Because she can't describe the pain.
Ask my Mum how she is,
She'll say "I'm alright."
If that's the truth, then tell me,
why does she cry each night ?
Ask my Mum how she is,
She seems to cope so well.
She didn't have a choice you see,
Nor the strength to yell.
Ask my Mum how she is,
"I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping."
For God's sake Mum, just tell the truth,
Just say your heart is broken.
She'll love me all her life,
I loved her all of mine.
But if you ask her how she is,
She'll lie and say she's fine.
I am Here in Heaven.
I cannot hug her from here.
If she lies to you don't listen,
Hug her and hold her near.
On the day we meet again,
We'll smile and I'll be bold.
I'll say, "You're lucky to get in here, Mum,
With all the lies you told!
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