Ben Oxley

1981 - 2008
LocationHalifax
Age27 years
Cause of DeathAccident
Date of Birth18/04/1981
Date of Death30/05/2008
Visitors29,446 since 04/06/2008
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Ben's friend Alison lovingly created this site and very kindly handed the reins over to me. Bless
you Ali xxxx

To our good friend Ben Oxley, you were taken from your loved ones way too soon at only 27. Everybody
who knew you loved you and everybody who met you liked you! You will never be forgotten. There just
arent enough words to describe you and there will never be enough words to describe losing you. We
hope you are in a nicer place now watching over your family and Katrina. You will be missed every
second of every day. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being you. Love always Alison. xx

Ben leaves behind a devastated family, his fiancee Katrina, his parents Tim and Jill, younger
brother and sister, Sam and Katie. We will love and miss Ben every day until we are reunited again.
xxx

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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us wonderful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.

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Well Ben I am going to keep this short and sweet because I could write about you forever. Ben was
the biggest character in our family. He lived his life to the full and lived each day has his last
with no regrets. He didnt take life seriously and had an easy care free outlook on life which has
parents was frustrating at times!! Ben had a wicked sense of humour and saw the funny side of things
even when not appropiate!! Ben was a joiner and took great pride in his work and was always only too
willing to do jobs for his family and friends. Wherever we go we see his handiwork and feel so
proud. If you wanted a good night out then Ben was the one to be with, though he did like to bring
golf flags home with him! Ben was a caring lad and always there for his family and friends who were
so important to him. Ben didnt fulfil his dream of marrying Kat next year or of the longing to have
his own family. I hope Ben is with his angel that he and Kat lost last year. Ben has left us some
amazing memories and life is quite boring without him now. You weren't an angel Ben but you are one
now. We love and miss you more than we can describe and everyone who was lucky enough to have met
you will never forget you. Wherever you are son be happy enjoy your time before we all come to join
you! Sleep peacefully Ben you are away from this cruel world. You are in our hearts and thoughts
until the day we die. Love you now and forever Mum & Dad
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In memory of Ben's wonderful Grandma, Jean Crook, who died 6th April 1995 aged 66. We love and miss
you very much and needed you so much when our Ben joined you. We know you will have been here with
all of us and will be looking after Ben until we are reunited. God Bless you Mum xxx



I would like to thank everyone who lights a candle for Ben or leaves a tribute. It is very
comforting to know that people care and take the time to do so. Love and best wishes to you all
xxxx





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♥......GOOD AFTERNOON ANGEL.......♥

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Over the rainbow, beyond the stars
In that beautiful garden above

Surrounded by loved ones, who went on before
Now at peace in God's perfect love

I know you'll be waiting, till my work is done
For there's more here on earth I must do

There's comfort in knowing when God calls my name
I'll cross over the rainbow .. to you

Unknown.
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Jill Ben'S Mum Xx (Mum) Sunday afternoon

I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE THAT HAS LITE CANDLES AND LEFT TRIBUTES AND GIFTS FOR LOUISES BIRTHDAY THANKYOU ALL SO MUCH.
YOU ARE REAL FRIENDS MY LOVE IS SENT TO EVERYONE ONE OF YOU
LOUISE WOULD BE VERY HAPPY THAT EVERYONE AS THOUGHT OF HER ON HER BIRTHDAY MY LOVE GOES OUT TO EVERYONE OF YOU AND YOUR ANGELS ONCE AGAIN THANKYOU ALL SO MUCH LOVE VAL AND MY ANGEL LOUISE XXXXXXX,

Valerie Allen (GTS Friend) Sunday morning

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" Clouds may come, but clouds must go, and they all have a silver lining. For behind each cloud, you know, the sun or moon is shining."

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Love Jane:) xxx

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Jane Jess' Mum X (Close Friend) Saturday evening

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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.


Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November



FOR MONDAY



The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.


FOR TUESDAY


Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.


FOR WEDNESDAY


A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.


FOR THURSDAY


Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.



FOR FRIDAY


The Watcher

They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.

And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.

Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.

Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.



FOR SATURDAY


As We Look Back


As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?

For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems

And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?

We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things

Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.



FOR SUNDAY


To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me


When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years

I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone

So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart

I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear

Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"


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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe (Close Friend) Saturday evening

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For a special Angel

★ In heaven above.

I've just popped on your memorial..
To send you some love..
For a special Angel..
In heaven above

You are greatly missed..
By your family below
Why God took your hand..
They will never know.

You were loved so much..
And nobody could compare
For you are a their special Angel..
In heaven up there.

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WITH LOVE
AS ALWAYS

Jan Maddison (GTS Friend) Saturday afternoon

Just letting you know I was here

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to leave you some love xx

Margaret Ferguson (Friend) Saturday morning

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HI MATE JST A SHORT NOTE 2 SAY NITE GO N AV A GOOD NITE WITH JODIE BEHAVE LOL LUV U AS ALWAYS XXX

Tarena Fairhurst (Auntie) Friday night

God's Heavenly Garden



Sometimes God picks the flower that is in full bloom:
sometimes the rosebud's chosen that we
feel He's picked too soon.

Sometimes the flower is fading with petals
floating down, but God knows the perfect time
to gather flowers from the ground.

There is a heavenly garden in which God takes
great pleasure because He's placed within it the
loved ones that we treasure.

He walks among the blossoms giving them eternal
rest, and I know that it must please Him because
He chose the very best.


Author:
Dorothea K. Barwick

Linda Daughter Of Norrie (Close Friend) Friday evening

20TH NOVEMBER 2009



Angel in my heart I love you so
Angel in my heart I never wanted you to go
Angel in my heart guide me each day
Angel in my heart It's for you I pray
Angel in my heart remember this
Angel in my heart It's you I miss
Angel in my heart I want you to know
Angel in my heart I will always love you so.

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I WILL BE AWAY FROM TODAY , AS WE ARE OFF FOR THE WEEKEND TO CELEBRATE MY 50TH BIRTHDAY, WHICH IS ON MONDAY.... HOW SCARRY IS THAT? !! PLEASE WILLYOU KEEP DANIEL OUT OF THE DARK FOR ME, UNTIL I REURN.? THANK YOU IN ADVANCE. X X ☆
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Jude Swaddle (Friend) Friday morning

xxx

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"It doesn't matter how many angels fit on the head of a pin, as long as there is room for an angel in your heart."

Christina Anello

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with love Jane ~xxx~

Jane Jess' Mum X (Close Friend) 5 days ago
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