Ben Oxley

1981 - 2008
LocationHalifax
Age27 years
Cause of DeathAccident
Date of Birth18/04/1981
Date of Death30/05/2008
Visitors29,237 since 04/06/2008
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Ben's friend Alison lovingly created this site and very kindly handed the reins over to me. Bless
you Ali xxxx

To our good friend Ben Oxley, you were taken from your loved ones way too soon at only 27. Everybody
who knew you loved you and everybody who met you liked you! You will never be forgotten. There just
arent enough words to describe you and there will never be enough words to describe losing you. We
hope you are in a nicer place now watching over your family and Katrina. You will be missed every
second of every day. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being you. Love always Alison. xx

Ben leaves behind a devastated family, his fiancee Katrina, his parents Tim and Jill, younger
brother and sister, Sam and Katie. We will love and miss Ben every day until we are reunited again.
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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us wonderful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.

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Well Ben I am going to keep this short and sweet because I could write about you forever. Ben was
the biggest character in our family. He lived his life to the full and lived each day has his last
with no regrets. He didnt take life seriously and had an easy care free outlook on life which has
parents was frustrating at times!! Ben had a wicked sense of humour and saw the funny side of things
even when not appropiate!! Ben was a joiner and took great pride in his work and was always only too
willing to do jobs for his family and friends. Wherever we go we see his handiwork and feel so
proud. If you wanted a good night out then Ben was the one to be with, though he did like to bring
golf flags home with him! Ben was a caring lad and always there for his family and friends who were
so important to him. Ben didnt fulfil his dream of marrying Kat next year or of the longing to have
his own family. I hope Ben is with his angel that he and Kat lost last year. Ben has left us some
amazing memories and life is quite boring without him now. You weren't an angel Ben but you are one
now. We love and miss you more than we can describe and everyone who was lucky enough to have met
you will never forget you. Wherever you are son be happy enjoy your time before we all come to join
you! Sleep peacefully Ben you are away from this cruel world. You are in our hearts and thoughts
until the day we die. Love you now and forever Mum & Dad
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In memory of Ben's wonderful Grandma, Jean Crook, who died 6th April 1995 aged 66. We love and miss
you very much and needed you so much when our Ben joined you. We know you will have been here with
all of us and will be looking after Ben until we are reunited. God Bless you Mum xxx



I would like to thank everyone who lights a candle for Ben or leaves a tribute. It is very
comforting to know that people care and take the time to do so. Love and best wishes to you all
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HI MATE JST A SHORT NOTE 2 SAY NITE GO N AV A GOOD NITE WITH JODIE BEHAVE LOL LUV U AS ALWAYS XXX

Tarena Fairhurst (Auntie) Last night

God's Heavenly Garden



Sometimes God picks the flower that is in full bloom:
sometimes the rosebud's chosen that we
feel He's picked too soon.

Sometimes the flower is fading with petals
floating down, but God knows the perfect time
to gather flowers from the ground.

There is a heavenly garden in which God takes
great pleasure because He's placed within it the
loved ones that we treasure.

He walks among the blossoms giving them eternal
rest, and I know that it must please Him because
He chose the very best.


Author:
Dorothea K. Barwick

Linda Daughter Of Norrie (Close Friend) Yesterday evening

20TH NOVEMBER 2009



Angel in my heart I love you so
Angel in my heart I never wanted you to go
Angel in my heart guide me each day
Angel in my heart It's for you I pray
Angel in my heart remember this
Angel in my heart It's you I miss
Angel in my heart I want you to know
Angel in my heart I will always love you so.

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) Yesterday morning

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"It doesn't matter how many angels fit on the head of a pin, as long as there is room for an angel in your heart."

Christina Anello

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with love Jane ~xxx~

Jane Jess' Mum X (Close Friend) Thursday evening



✿ 19TH NOVEMBER 2009 ✿

GOODNIGHT SWEET ANGEL.........

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) Thursday evening

♥ `*•.¸ 19th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.¸

ANGEL~BEN
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Dear God
This letter is addressed to you.
Just to thank you for all that you do.
For you are so kind and show lots of love.
To all our angels in heaven above.
You keep our angels safe and look after them with love.
Oh I wish I could see my angel..
In heaven up above.
Dear God I miss my angel so much you see.
for we had a special bond, my angel and me.
I love my angel with all my heart.
But I've been so sad since we had to part.
Dear God I know that you have made my angel better.
So please Dear God read my angel this letter.

copyright? Jackie Thomas 30/05/09

Jan Maddison (GTS Friend) Thursday evening

Hi Ben Just checked my e-mails and a message from Alison for you ~ Behave and thinking of you always ~ bless her you two would be having a right verbal war now and both loving every minute of it. You met some wonderful people in your short life Ben some people dont do that in a life time. Well my love have a good night wish you was here ~ Mum xxx

Jill Ben'S Mum Xx (Mum) Thursday evening

Night night Handsome

GOODNIGHT,GOD BLESS SPECIAL ANGEL.XXX

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♥ Still Loved,still missed and very dear.

Always in my heart and thoughts

With love Always
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Mum
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Jill Ben'S Mum Xx (Mum) Thursday evening

GOODNIGHT GODBLESS BEN

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Here is a glowing candle..
That's lit with lots of love..
Just to say Night night..
To you Angel up above

I will also leave a tribute..
On your memorial with love
And I have wrote this little poem..
Just for you...
Special Angel up above

God Bless you special Angel..
Now I shall say night night
Watch over your family with love
And whisper to them...
GOODNIGHT

copyright� Jackie Thomas 02/09/09.

with love alway's ben
auntie june uncle malc xxxx

June Crawshaw (Auntie) Thursday evening



✿ 19TH NOVEMBER 2009 ✿

GOOD EVENING SWEET ANGEL.........

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) Thursday afternoon
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