| Location | Halifax |
| Age | 27 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 18/04/1981 |
| Date of Death | 30/05/2008 |
| Visitors | 28,653 since 04/06/2008 |
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Ben's friend Alison lovingly created this site and very kindly handed the reins over to me. Bless
you Ali xxxx
To our good friend Ben Oxley, you were taken from your loved ones way too soon at only 27. Everybody
who knew you loved you and everybody who met you liked you! You will never be forgotten. There just
arent enough words to describe you and there will never be enough words to describe losing you. We
hope you are in a nicer place now watching over your family and Katrina. You will be missed every
second of every day. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being you. Love always Alison. xx
Ben leaves behind a devastated family, his fiancee Katrina, his parents Tim and Jill, younger
brother and sister, Sam and Katie. We will love and miss Ben every day until we are reunited again.
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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us wonderful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.
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Well Ben I am going to keep this short and sweet because I could write about you forever. Ben was
the biggest character in our family. He lived his life to the full and lived each day has his last
with no regrets. He didnt take life seriously and had an easy care free outlook on life which has
parents was frustrating at times!! Ben had a wicked sense of humour and saw the funny side of things
even when not appropiate!! Ben was a joiner and took great pride in his work and was always only too
willing to do jobs for his family and friends. Wherever we go we see his handiwork and feel so
proud. If you wanted a good night out then Ben was the one to be with, though he did like to bring
golf flags home with him! Ben was a caring lad and always there for his family and friends who were
so important to him. Ben didnt fulfil his dream of marrying Kat next year or of the longing to have
his own family. I hope Ben is with his angel that he and Kat lost last year. Ben has left us some
amazing memories and life is quite boring without him now. You weren't an angel Ben but you are one
now. We love and miss you more than we can describe and everyone who was lucky enough to have met
you will never forget you. Wherever you are son be happy enjoy your time before we all come to join
you! Sleep peacefully Ben you are away from this cruel world. You are in our hearts and thoughts
until the day we die. Love you now and forever Mum & Dad
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In memory of Ben's wonderful Grandma, Jean Crook, who died 6th April 1995 aged 66. We love and miss
you very much and needed you so much when our Ben joined you. We know you will have been here with
all of us and will be looking after Ben until we are reunited. God Bless you Mum xxx
I would like to thank everyone who lights a candle for Ben or leaves a tribute. It is very
comforting to know that people care and take the time to do so. Love and best wishes to you all
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Sweetdreams XxX
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Having problems with my computer, so leaving big hugs incase I can`t get on for a few days, love Christine xxx
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Shine down beautiful Angel..
Shine like the sun
Go shine with your Angel friends..
And I hope you have fun
With your beautiful wings..
You fly high all around
Dropping white fluffy feathers..
Down on the ground
When we see the feathers fall..
Out of the sky..
It looks like snow..
Falling from way up high
It's your way..
Of letting us know..
You are happy in heaven..
So that goes to show
When we see a rainbow..
With colours so bright..
We think of you..
Day and night
May God keep you safe..
Sweet Angel above
I shall say..
Night night..
And send you my love x
copyright Jackie Thomas 12/11/09.
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Here is a special star..
That I send to you with love
It's a special star from me..
Sent to you above
It shines bright all through the night..
And keeps shining through the day
God bless you special Angel..
I'm sending love your way
copyright Jackie Thomas 12/11/09.
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As I look at the moon
I wish you goodnight
The dearest angel
So special and loved.
You are the one God chose to take
You are the one we could not wake
I know in heaven is now where you sleep.
So please God in heaven
God up above
Please protect this angel
That we love.
I must say good night
I blow to you a kiss
I wish you goodnight
The angel that we miss.
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LOTS OF LOVE SANDY XXXXXXX
♥ `*•.¸11th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.¸
.~*♰*~. I Still love you .~*♰*~.
I know i saw you last night
Angel kisses on my hand
Talking to me sweetly
Trying to make me understand
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You didnt want to leave me
You said you had no choice
You heard the words come with me
The words came from Gods voice
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To me youre still so special
God must have thought that too
You left behind a broken heart
But dont forget i still love you
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copyrght? Vicky Deaville 11/11/09
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for Ben and Jill xxx
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"The world is round and the place which may seem like the end may also be the beginning."
~ Ivy Baker Priest ~
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with love Jane xxx
IITH NOVEMBER 2009
✿..LET US REMEMBER THEM...✿
✿ 'Please wear a poppy', the lady said
and held one forth, but I shook my head.
Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there,
And her face was old, and lined with care;
But beneath the scars the years had made
There remained a smile that refused to fade.✿
✿ A boy came wistling down the street,
Bouncing along, on care free feet
His smile was full of joy and fun,
'Lady', said he, 'May I have one?'
When she pinned it on, he turned to say,
'Why do we wear a poppy today?'✿
✿ The lady smiled in her wistful way,
and answered, 'This is Rememberance Day,
And the poppy there is the symbol for,
the gallant men who died in war,
and because they died you and I are free--
Thats why we wear a poppy, you see'.✿
✿ 'I had a boy about your size,
with golden hair and big blue eyes.
He loved to play and jump and shout,
free as a bird he would race about.
As the years went by, he learned and grew
and became a man--as you will, too.' ✿
✿ 'He was fine and strong, with a boyish smile,
but he'd seemed with us such a little while
When war broke out and he went away,
I still remember his face that day.
When he smiled at me and said'Good-bye,
I'll soon be back, mom, so please don't cry'.✿
✿ 'But the war went on and he had to stay,
and all I could do was wait and pray.
His letters told of the awful fight,
(I can see it in my dreams at night),
with the tanks and guns and cruel Barbed wire,
and the mines and bullets, the bombs and fire.'✿
✿'Till at last the war was won-
and thats why we wear a poppy son'.
The small boy turned as if to go,
Then said 'Thanks lady, I'm glad to know.
That sure did sound like an awful fight,
But your Son-- did he come back alright?'✿
✿ A tear rolled down each faded cheek;
she shook her head, but didn't speak.
I slunk away in a sort of shame,
and if you were me you'd have done the same;
For our thanks, in giving, is oft delayed,
though our freedome was bought-and thousands paid.✿
✿ And so when we see a poppy worn, let us reflect on the burden borne
By those who gave their very all
and asked to answer their country's call
That we at home in peace might live.
Then wear a poppy. Remember-- and give!✿
✿ Lest we forget......✿
Copyright ~ 2009 by Blair Leger & ilovepoetry.com
❤ With love ❤
Beautiful Angel in heaven above..❤
Today I shall send you lots of love ❤
We all know you are safe..❤
And you shine down from up high ❤
Just like a diamond in the sky ❤
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God took your hand first..❤
And showed you the way ❤
You are still loved and missed..❤
Everyday ❤
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Watch over your family..❤
On earth below ❤
Why God took you TOO SOON..❤
They will never know ❤
❤ ❤ God bless you beautiful Angel ❤ ❤
copyright Jackie Thomas 11/11/09.
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